ALWAYS love yourself first because Pay attention to how your partner speaks to you and how they make you feel more times than others. When you start to feel like you're losing yourself loving someone it's because you are becoming drained emotionally and your not listening to your intuition aka your gut.

With no real closure, I think its impossible to love yourself if you don’t know yourself… in this case you will always feel NEED. Growing up we never imagine these challenges or even that you’d be living this reality.