Your not just here for love, a guy is not your life… when i say this I mean he’s not the main storyline. That's not your main purpose you know, why you’re here on this universe.

I know it seems like you're in love and you might be... but you need to remember to ALWAYS love yourself FIRST because if you don't— he may see that and use that against you, especially if he's insecure. He will and can project insecurities onto you and he will break you down mentally just to build you back up so that want you may feel becomes a NEED. That want feel is called codependency.

How do you know if he's insecure? Pay attention to how your partner speaks to you and how they make you feel more times than others. When you start to feel like you're losing yourself loving someone it's because you are becoming drained emotionally and your not listening to your intuition aka your gut.

I need you to know how worthy you are, how beautiful you are.... Don’t ignore red flags. You are smart — there’s nothing wrong with giving chances but even those need an expiration date. Listen to your intuition, if someone isn’t treating you right, you're not tripping— trust yourself. “You’re not just here for love”.

One dude to a billion men & women in this world, please don’t make it bigger than it is. Always choose YOU first then them, as long as they respect you and remind you of your worth and vice versa - Your relationships should always be Healthy with healthy feelings. 

 It’s a rocky road to love babe... there will be obstacles and lessons you don't understand at first but on the other side.. once you surpass those things and learn what was meant for you to learn— you’re gonna love it here. #Selflove — im rooting for you 💕

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